Well that's a fair question. Can you answer it? Well there is a good chance that it is you, and there is a good chance that it is not favorable. Oh yes I said it..... it is most likely you and it is not favorable.
Why would I say this.... well I have been there and I have heard them talking. I have been in groups and the comments are made. I then look at the group of people and wonder why would they engage in that type of behavior?